The Motherhood Club Part I
I originally published this five-part series (titled Dear Mom) in May of 2009 to coincide with Mother’s Day. It remains one of my favorite writing projects posted on danapop. While most of the women profiled have experienced changes in their families (career shifts, more children, grandchildren, and even great-great-grandchildren) I did not want to deviate from what was previously published as I think the answers are still relevant despite life carrying on. As I’m embarking on motherhood I thought it would be the perfect time to revisit. I do hope you enjoy the reread.
-Dana
I’ve had the privilege and joy over the last few years of seeing some of my closest friends as well as my sister and sister-in-law become mothers. It’s made me realize that for as many hats as we women wear, being a mother appears to be, quite possibly, the toughest.
That has made me think more often of motherhood in general and my own relationship with mine. I can’t say I’ve ever written a letter to my mother. Sure, emails. Sure, lengthy telephone conversations with both of us carrying on about nothing in particular. But, an honest to goodness pen to paper letter – not so much. If I were to write her, I’d likely start with a simple thank you and then express my gratitude for her nurturing and her patience throughout my life (not counting the few late high school/early college years where we couldn’t stomach the sight of each other).
In honor of mother’s day, I’ve conducted a sociological experiment of sorts. Below is the beginning of a five-part series that I’ll be posting throughout the next few weeks. I interviewed nine women – eight of whom are mothers and one who is just about to be. Each gave me such amazing honesty and insight and they made this piece what it is; and for that, I am humbled. This article reflects their caring, their time and their generosity.
Here’s to all the mothers, a five-day tribute.
